When someone is ill or recovering from illness or an accident, we often recite a mi sheberach to wish them a refuah sheleimah, or a “full recovery.” We have expanded this prayer for those who are struggling with grief.
To the One who blessed our ancestors, and the One who blesses all beings here on this earth. Bless all those who are suffering the grief of someone they loved,
May they find solace in their memory, and may their love find a resting place in their hearts. Bless all those who are struggling with the death of someone with whom they had a difficult relationship,
May they find compassion for themselves and renewal of spirit.
May they have patience and strength, as grief can come in waves throughout their lives,
May they find the courage to share their grief with others, no matter how many years have gone by. While they can be shattered by loss, they can be healed by love from others,
Sacred one, help them find ways to open their hearts to love and hope.
Bless all those who are grieving, for it is an honor to have lived,
May both life and death be a blessing. Amen
– By Nancy L. Kriseman, LCSW, Jan, 2021
This mi sheberachs was written by an individual in their own voices and based on their own experiences. This prayer may not directly reflect your personal experience with mental health or the particular topic this prayer focuses on. If you are interested in writing a mi sheberach, please share it with us so we can highlight your voice.